Most entrepreneurs don’t have a business—they have a full-time job disguised as a business.

They are in their business, not leading it.
They are reacting instead of creating.
They are working too hard for results that feel inconsistent.

And it’s because their business is an extension of them, rather than a separate entity that can stand on its own.

I know this firsthand.

I’ve built multiple businesses and scaled to multi-millions. But when I stepped into coaching and mentoring, something felt different.

Why? Because this time, I was the product. I was the business.

That meant every promotion, every slow month, every challenge felt deeply personal.
It also meant my energy dictated my income. My emotions, doubts, and fears bled into my revenue.

Until I made a single, game-changing decision: I separated myself from my business.

And everything shifted.

How Emotional Attachment Creates Revenue Leaks

If your business isn’t growing the way you want it to, it’s not because you aren’...

 One of the best pieces of advice I ever got is to become your own best client.

Implement and embody your own teachings and ultimately be your own source of power & security.

In a very noisy online world, it's easy to get distracted and chase one magic bullet after another.

This gives away your power and, in my humble opinion, rarely works.

Because you're the source of your own results.

The answer is always internal; it always starts first with identity, then frequency, and then strategy.

A plan is important (mainly to remind us, as we tend to forget) and also to ensure you take action.

In this exact order.

If you're ready to embody this, I invite you to your new era, where you take back your power: The Queen Era. It's my 4-Day Free Challenge. You can join the QUEEN ERA HERE 

I want to share with you my biggest lessons from 21 years of business and running 9 businesses, in no particular order.

1. You are the source of your own results

This means you're the creator and much ...

5 lessons I wish I had known sooner than I did (and If you implement this, it will double your revenue in 1-2 months)

Now is the perfect time to tweak this.

Separate your business from YOU and make it non-negotiable. If you’re a parent, you’re a parent, whether you feel like it or not. Similarly, you’re a business owner whether you feel like it or not.

While it’s so important to take care of yourself, your well-being, and your energy, and to heal wounds, traumas, and limiting beliefs, don’t use that as an excuse to not do your business and stay in the endless “excuse” of why you don’t have the revenue you want.

Don’t mix up worthiness, deserving, etc. with making money. You can work on yourself AND make money.

You’ve got to make revenue non-negotiable in your business and make it standard. Be the CEO of your business and act like you would if you were a CEO of another person’s business or if you had staff.

You couldn’t just say to the owner of the business, “Oh sorry, I wasn’t ...

In case you don't know this crazy story of how I simplified and scaled my business to 40k+ months or if you’re new to my world, I want to share with you my story of how this all started.

Several years ago, I was going through a quite difficult divorce with my ex-husband and I became a single mom to my beautiful daughter, India.

I started to have her 100% of the time and as I was going through this difficult time in my life, I was also scaling my startup.

One day, I was running late as usual, and was running to India’s daycare to pick her up. As I entered the room she was in, I saw that she was the only child left. Her face completely lit up when she saw me, and my heart broke.

I realised at that moment, she was usually the first one at daycare and the last one out.

I can’t start to describe the guilt, the pain and the shame I experienced in that moment and the deep, deep sorrow that I felt - that I was losing out on my daughter because I was so busy scaling my business.

She was g...

There is a process to go to 6-figures and multiple 6-figures so let me share it with you.

(if you want to watch the video, go here and it's pinned to the top) or continue to read...

This is so simple: the key to creating high revenue months is this:

 Really enjoy how you serve and truly KNOW the potency of your service, really know the impact and the ripple effect. Everything is BASED ON THIS. 

 Add tons of value to your clients and buyers- be here to serve. SERVICE FIRST

 Show up consistently no matter what (you can outsmart yourself here)

 And make invitations to work with you over and over again.

 And have a lot of fun doing it, playing the business game.

 Because this is just a game. So take the fear away, and let’s play

And eat fear for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

Step 1: Know what you desire and WHY. 

 For your clients and for you.

 What do you desire for your clients after working with you? What’s really the impact of your service and why does it matter?

 What d...

I have the 6th sense.

Speaking with you for a few minutes, I could tell you how to shift your business around.

Which tweaks to implement.

This is my superpowers.

I can sense and see things, and I have a very strong intuition.

But I don't need that for this one.

This is hardcore strategy and facts, and I can almost guarantee that this is applicable for you.

(If not, please let me know).

So, let's get to it.

The reason why you're not making more money in your business is that you get in the way.

Yep, you heard me. You have mixed your business with YOU.

Your fears, limiting beliefs, doubts, and humanness are all over it.

And therefore, it's often hard to see things clearly.

Have you noticed how easy it is to give others advice, and how clearly we can see things then? What steps to take and how to solve those problems?

But when it comes to us, we're all tangled in it because we're in the problem. We're part of it, and we're emotionally tied to it.

Guilt, shame, doubts, fears...

Regardless of how much I would try, selling and being sold to feels icky.

My body literally screams NOOOO.

So I refuse to do it. Period.

It’s an irony, as I’ve built my career and multiple businesses around sales.

We even did door-to-door sales when we were scaling our telecommunication company back in 2004.

It’s the old paradigm. Selling. Pressuring. Putting scarcity.

Using fear and pain points.

I don’t do this, as I don’t feel good about it.

It goes against my values and integrity.

I still do sales, but from the buyer paradigm.

My clients buy.

If and when it feels right.

Don't take me wrong.

I do outreach.

I do marketing.

I do innovations. 

I make offers.

I follow up.

There might be external urgencies, but only if that’s valid and feels good.

If it's in alignment.

Not because of pressure or I feel that I NEED that sale.

I treat my buyers how I love to be treated as a buyer.

I like to be seen and served.

If someone tries to pressure me. Sell to me or convince me...

I have a juicy behind-the-scenes story to share with you today, baring it all. 
It's about PROVIDER MONEY.

Now, the irony of this is that I was recently tested in this area. And, eventually, I passed the test.

In March of this year (4 months ago), I moved with my then 5-year-old daughter to Andalucia, Spain.

One member of my family was a bit worried about this move as I'm a single mom to my daughter, and he found it quite reckless to leave the "safety" of the Netherlands for Spain.

I brushed this off, but the seed was planted

However, it shocked my nervous system in many more ways than I had imagined. These seeds of doubt had started to take root.

This put me back into overwhelm.

My inner children started feeling scarcity and fear, as in the past, a move always meant insecurity.

I went into feelings of overwhelm, got busy, scattered, and started to feel the fear.

My fear was saying, "Oh gosh, what if things won't work now that I live in Spain?" "What if your family member is right?"

I was living ...

Let’s talk about how to use energetics in your business.

Each energetic aspect has its divine strength, as well as its flip side or shadow.

Here's how I perceive this:

 Feminine: The Mother - nurturing, caring, loving, strong, wise. Imagine a wise woman whom people seek counsel from, a space holder, a safe space. It's all about feelings, about BEING. Receiving and enjoying life's greatness. It's about desires, manifestation, and wisdom. It's about intuition, care, self-care, love, self-love, creation, and Mother Earth.

Through this energetic aspect, you can create magic money in your business, and I will share more about this shortly.

The flip side of the feminine is victimhood, giving up your power, resentment, over-giving. Sometimes you may encounter individuals who give everything to everyone but neglect themselves, saying, "I do everything for everyone, but nobody does anything for me."

This can be typical co-dependent behavior. It leads to exhaustion, blaming,...