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The Scared Little Girl in Your Business Is Running the Show. And Sheโ€™s Tired.

May 22, 2025

There’s a version of you that no one sees on social media (but can feel her... and this is why sales feel sometimes slow)

She’s the one who spirals at 10 p.m. wondering if the clients will come.
She’s the one who tightens her jaw at the idea of raising prices.
She’s the one who overgives, undercharges, and still feels like she’s not doing enough.

She’s the one who doesn’t trust it’s safe to receive.

She’s just scared.

She’s your inner little girl and she's running the show...
And in more ways than you think…
she’s running your business.

The Little Girl Lives in 3D

She was shaped by survival.

She learned that love is earned.
That success requires sacrifice.
That safety depends on being good, being liked, being perfect.

So she works hard to please.
She people-pleases to stay safe.
She says yes when she means no.
She hides her bigness because she’s scared it will make people leave.

And in business, she’s the one that:

๐ŸŒ€ Stays small to stay liked.
๐ŸŒ€ Doesn’t launch because she’s afraid no one will buy.
๐ŸŒ€ Pushes harder because she doesn’t trust it will happen otherwise.

When she’s in charge, you live in reaction, not creation.
You operate from fear, not power.
You market from pressure, not pleasure.

But You Can’t Expand From a Dysregulated Nervous System

Business is an energetic game.
And your business can’t hold more than you can hold.

So if you’re feeling the contraction…
The tension…
The deep fear under the surface…

It’s not mindset.
It’s not sabotage.
It’s your system saying:

“I don’t feel safe here.”

And that’s where the work begins.

You Don’t Need to Fix Her.

You Need to Hold Her.

The shift from 3D to 5D isn’t about becoming someone else.
It’s about integrating the scared little girl and showing her she’s safe now.

This is where your divine masculine comes in.

Not the forceful, rigid kind.
The sacred, grounded, protective masculine.

The one that whispers:
๐Ÿ’ฌ “You’re safe.”
๐Ÿ’ฌ “We’ve got this.”
๐Ÿ’ฌ “You don’t need to hustle to be worthy.”
๐Ÿ’ฌ “You’re allowed to rest.”

This is the version of you who doesn’t spin out when the Stripe notification doesn’t come.
Who doesn’t make meaning out of a slow week.
Who doesn’t collapse when someone says “not now.”

She doesn’t beg for clients.
She holds herself

Because she's okay regardless.

And from that place?

โœจ Your creativity returns.
โœจ Your confidence stabilizes.
โœจ Your offers land like fire.

Because you’re no longer building from fear.
You’re building from alignment, who you are. WHOLENESS

This Is the Foundation of Everything I Teach

If you’ve been swinging between full-blown magnetism and hiding in the shadows...

If you've been swinging between hyper masculine structures to hype feminine energetics and neither works as too many swings

If you’re tired of chasing the next client and ready to hold a business that holds you back...

If you’re ready to soothe the scared little girl and activate the woman who knows...

Then here’s your next step.

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ The 10K+ Plan — only €8

Message for the deeets

This isn’t just a strategy plan.

It’s a reset.

It’s where we:
โœ… Calm your nervous system.
โœ… Anchor your identity.
โœ… Create a clear, aligned income map , one that feels safe, not scary.

It’s what allows my clients to go from 1–2K months to consistent 10K+ months without burnout or breakdown.

Because once you bring the scared little girl into safety…

You unlock the power within, the adult woman who KNOWS.

And the WOMAN knows:

๐Ÿ’ธ Her income is inevitable.
๐Ÿ’ธ Her power is stabilized.
๐Ÿ’ธ Her work is enough.

She doesn’t hope. She decides.

Let this be the moment you stop building from the wound… and start building from wisdom.

Because you don’t need to do more.

You need to feel safe enough to receive what’s already yours.

Silja